Good Music, Dammit

December 3rd, 2009

We, the teachers, cannot curse in school. We may not swear at students. We cannot curse at the students despite our own frustrations. We may not curse, not even if a student’s poor performance deserves it. There are good reasons for this, including professional propriety, teacherly love and support, setting an example of positive coping strategies, and simple fear of repercussions. No matter what: we may not swear at either poor behavior or poor academic performance.

But what about the student at the other end of the spectrum? Have you ever been tempted to drop a naughty word into a congratulations speech for the purpose of making your students understand just how unnaturally pleased you are with their performance? Have you ever had a student be so extremely modest that a little shakeup might actually boost their self-esteem? Have your students ever earned the “hell yeah” or “damn fine job” or “so fucking proud of you” that didn’t slip past the filter of your professional code of conduct?

Entry Filed under: Leadership Lab, Recruiting & Retention

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  • 1. Music Teacher  |  December 23rd, 2009 at 2:16 pm

    You’ve got great points and thoughts in this post. Thanks for sharing your ideas and realizations to your readers. I agree that music teachers like us can never curse or swear anyone in school especially our students. No matter how mad, depressed, frustrated and disappointed we are with our students’ academic performance, we are still expected to stay cool and composed - wearing that smile and projecting genuine professionalism. Personally, I haven’t done anything that I regret after doing or saying so. Whenever I am caught in that situation, I just take a very deep breath, pray for strength and guidance, seek wisdom and feel relieved. Please keep on sharing your ideas on those creative and inventive music teaching resources available today. Thanks again and more power. Happy Holidays!

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